Made for each other

It all started when i was 15 year old and my friend gave me a  stick  .  And that stick was called CIGARETTE .  As a teen ager I was quite excited .    As my friend gave me cigarette and  Itook matchbox from my pocket to light up. But I failed to lightup . It was my first meeting with cigarette. It was gold flake .Small gold flake . And from that day I started to smoke up. I was kind of happy. Even I was not able to take smoke in but I was feeling proud by holding that stick . And I thought it’s veryexciting . Every day at evening a friend used to come and by contributing we use to buy gold flake . Now I was taking smokein . I thought it is helping me to relieve. I know it was bullshit.

As time passed my daily encounter with cigarette turned into addiction and gradually into a necessity. And after that I met with new product called alcohol . It was all going very smoothly. I didn’t even notice I was playing with my lungs and liver. I was living in world of quotes and movies. And after 2-3 years I became alcoholic and smoker. Now I don’t even needed for company . I started visiting bar alone. Lighting cigarette was now child’s play. And I started taking marijuana . And all alcohol, cigarette and weed was killing me slowly.

But I was un noticed. I was in love with cigarette . I was like Mad lover who doesn’t know any thing except her love.

And one day after 16 years I realized I am not well. My lover is like poison . she is like time bomb. And I decided to QUIT.

QUITING is not as easy as adapting . Daily I tried quitting bt I was helpless . every morning I was attracted towards cigarette shop . I always wanted to get high.

By the way I wasn’t chain smoker . But yes for my body it was too much.

And one morning I made strong determination to break p with cigarette and decided to quit .

For about 12days I remained away from cigarette . It was like she is calling me and I was acting as heartless bitch . On  15thday a friend came and said,”light up buddy…..ek cigarette pee loge to kuch chala nai jayega….” And I couldn’t resist . As I put it in my mouth . I took matchstick . As I lighted up blood started like flowing in my body. I felt like brain started working .

And I felt that it was not any ordinary relation .

Me and cigarette is very sacred relation and after that cigarette I lighted another one …

 

 

 

DRUGS- SOCIAL EVIL

As time is passing people is getting attracted towards drugs. We all know that drugs kills. But its not enough. If we look at the matter we will find that its a bigger issue than we are thinking. It is said that drug culture originated during 1960's in western countries. It was time of HIPPI ...they spread the use of drugs to expand their mind...
An estimated 208 million people internationally consume illegal drugs. In the United States, results from the 2007 National Survey on Drug Use and Health showed that 19.9 million Americans (or 8% of the population aged 12 or older) used illegal drugs in the month prior to the survey. And India is not far behind. About 60% of people are addicted towards drugs, alcohol or tobacco .

The most commonly used—and abused—drug in the INDIA is alcohol.Alcohol-related motor accidents are the second leading cause of teen death in the INDIA.

The most commonly used illegal drug is marijuana. According to the United Nations 2008 World Drug Report, about 3.9% of the world’s population between the ages of 15 and 64 abuse marijuana. Marijuana is illigal in India and many countries. But still it is available easily. If we talk about my city...A 12 year old boy can walk easily to shop and ask for weed..or baba...but we are not here to discuss about law and order. 

In Europe, recent studies among 15- and 16-year-olds suggest that use of marijuana varies from under 10% to over 40%, with the highest rates reported by teens in the Czech Republic (44%), followed by Ireland (39%), the UK (38%) and France (38%). In Spain and the United Kingdom, cocaine use among 15- to 16-year-olds is 4% to 6%. Cocaine use among young people has risen in Denmark, Italy, Spain, UK, Norway and France.

  “My goal in life wasn’t living . . . it was getting high. Over the years, I turned to cocaine, marijuana and alcohol under a false belief it would allow me to escape my problems. It just made things worse. I kept saying to myself, I’m going to stop permanently after using one last time. It never happened.” —SAURAV

HOW IT GET STARTED....

First of all the basic criteria responsible for drug addictioon depends on person u r hanging out with..it brings u under peer pressure. 

It starts with cigarette , joins beer.. mix with whiskey after u find weed and and lastly u will find death.

NOW, we know smoking kills... its also written on pack of cigarette...smoking kills.. again peer pressure comes in....

Government has written it kills. but in shake of heavy taxes they dont ban it

NOW MOVE TO SECOND STEP I.E. alcohol

It is classed as a depressant, meaning that it slows down vital functions—resulting in slurred speech, unsteady movement, disturbed perceptions and an inability to react quickly.

As for how it affects the mind, it is best understood as a drug that reduces a person’s ability to think rationally and distorts his or her judgment.

Although classified as a depressant, the amount of alcohol consumed determines the type of effect. Most people drink for thestimulant effect, such as a beer or glass of wine taken to “loosen up.” But if a person consumes more than the body can handle, they then experience alcohol’s depressant effect. They start to feel “stupid” or lose coordination and control.

Alcohol overdose causes even more severe depressant effects (inability to feel pain, toxicity where the body vomits the poison, and finally unconsciousness or, worse, coma or death from severe toxic overdose). These reactions depend on how much is consumed and how quickly.

There are different kinds of alcohol. Ethyl alcohol (ethanol), the only alcohol used in beverages, is produced by the fermentation of grains and fruits. Fermenting is a chemical process whereby yeast acts upon certain ingredients in the food, creating alcohol.

ALCOHOL CONTENT

Fermented drinks, such as beer and wine, contain from 2% alcohol to 20% alcohol. Distilled drinks, or liquor, contain from 40% to 50% or more alcohol. The usual alcohol content for each is:

Beer 2–6% alcohol
Cider 4–8% alcohol
Wine 8–20% alcohol
Tequila 40% alcohol
Rum 40% or more alcohol
Brandy 40% or more alcohol
Gin 40–47% alcohol
Whiskey 40–50% alcohol
Vodka 40–50% alcohol
Liqueurs 15–60% alcohol

Most of the rape are happening due to alcohol. We should make alcohol use occaisonaly. we should hang out few days only. and we can save lot of money from that. if we see we will find that most of people who r poor are either drug addict of alcohol addict.

now move to next step...MARIJUANA OR WEED

WHAT IS MARIJUANA?

Marijuana is the word used to describe the dried flowers, seeds and leaves of the Indian hemp plant. On the street, it is called by many other names, such as: astro turf, bhang, dagga, dope, ganja, grass, hemp, home grown, J, Mary Jane, pot, reefer, roach, Texas tea and weed.

Hashish is a related form of the drug, made from the resins of the Indian hemp plant. Also called chocolate, hash or shit, it is on average six times stronger than marijuana.

“Cannabis” describes any of the different drugs that come from Indian hemp, including marijuana and hashish.

Regardless of the name, this drug is a hallucinogen—a substance which distorts how the mind perceives the world you live in.

The chemical in cannabis that creates this distortion is known as “THC.” The amount of THC found in any given batch of marijuana may vary substantially, but overall, the percentage of THC has increased in recent years.

HOW IS IT USED?

Marijuana is a mixture of dried-out leaves, stems, flowers and seeds of the hemp plant. It is usually green, brown or gray in color.

Hashish is tan, brown or black resin that is dried and pressed into bars, sticks or balls. When smoked, both marijuana and hashish give off a distinctive, sweet odor.

Marijuana is the most commonly used illegal drug in the world. A survey conducted in 2007 found that 14.4 million individuals in the US alone had smoked marijuana at least once during the previous month.

Marijuana is usually smoked as a cigarette (joint), but may also be smoked in a pipe. Less often, it is mixed with food and eaten or brewed as tea. Sometimes users open up cigars and remove the tobacco, replacing it with pot—called a “blunt.” Joints and blunts are sometimes laced with other, more powerful drugs, such as crack cocaine or PCP (phencyclidine, a powerful hallucinogen).

When a person smokes a joint, he usually feels its effect within minutes. The immediate sensations—increased heart rate, lessened coordination and balance, and a “dreamy,” unreal state of mind—peak within the first 30 minutes. These short-term effects usually wear off in two to three hours, but they could last longer, depending on how much the user takes, the potency of THC and the presence of other drugs added into the mix.

As the typical user inhales more smoke and holds it longer than he would with a cigarette, a joint creates a severe impact on one’s lungs. Aside from the discomfort that goes with sore throats and chest colds, it has been found that consuming one joint gives as much exposure to cancer-producing chemicals as smoking five cigarettes.

The mental consequences of marijuana use are equally severe. Marijuana smokers have poorer memories and mental aptitude than do non-users.

Animals given marijuana by researchers have even suffered structural damage to the brain.

THE HARMFUL EFFECTS OF MARIJUANA

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The immediate effects of taking marijuana include rapid heart beat, disorientation, lack of physical coordination, often followed by depression or sleepiness. Some users suffer panic attacks or anxiety.

But the problem does not end there. According to scientific studies, the active ingredient in cannabis, THC, remains in the body for weeks or longer.

Marijuana smoke contains 50% to 70% more cancer-causing substances than tobacco smoke. One major research study reported that a single cannabis joint could cause as much damage to the lungs as up to five regular cigarettes smoked one after another. Long-time joint smokers often suffer from bronchitis, an inflammation of the respiratory tract.

The drug can affect more than your physical health. Studies in Australia in 2008 linked years of heavy marijuana use to brain abnormalities. This is backed up by earlier research on the long-term effects of marijuana, which indicate changes in the brain similar to those caused by long-term abuse of other major drugs. And a number of studies have shown a connection between continued marijuana use and psychosis.

Marijuana changes the structure of sperm cells, deforming them. Thus even small amounts of marijuana can cause temporary sterility in men. Marijuana use can upset a woman’s menstrual cycle.

Studies show that the mental functions of people who have smoked a lot of marijuana tend to be diminished. The THC in cannabis disrupts nerve cells in the brain affecting memory.

Cannabis is one of the few drugs which causes abnormal cell division which leads to severe hereditary defects. A pregnant woman who regularly smokes marijuana or hashish may give birth prematurely to an undersized, underweight baby. Over the last ten years, many children of marijuana users have been born with reduced initiative and lessened abilities to concentrate and pursue life goals. Studies also suggest that prenatal (before birth) use of the drug may result in birth defects, mental abnormalities and increased risk of leukemia1 in children.

When teens were surveyed to find out why they started using drugs in the first place, 55% replied that it was due to pressure from their friends. They wanted to be cool and popular. Dealers know this.

They will approach you as a friend and offer to “help you out” with “something to bring you up.” The drug will “help you fit in” or “make you cool.”

Drug dealers, motivated by the profits they make, will say anything to get you to buy their drugs. They will tell you that “weed won’t lead you to harder drugs.”

They don’t care if the drugs ruin your life as long as they are getting paid. All they care about is money. Former dealers have admitted they saw their buyers as “pawns in a chess game"

these are stats which i found on internet and clean up my mind. now its ur time...SAY NO TO DRUGS. DONT HEAR THE FUCK OF THOSE WHO TELL IT WILL MAKE U COOL...

BE WISE. 

reference-http://www.drugfreeworld.org/drugfacts/the-truth-about-drugs.html
you can move to this site for more information...BE DRUG FREE,,,BE HEALTHY....

Real men don't rape

               REAL MEN DON'T RAPE

As we know this is generation of iphone 5 and technology is at height. We are today living modern life in every aspects. but are we really modern. Toay our country 'INDIA' is said to be one of the leading developing country.But if you look from different view you will find that our country is turning as rape capital. acording to stats we will find that in India most rape happen. why??? are we indians monster..or we are desperate..  and yes if we talk about delhi rape case which happend few days back we can say they were monster. we cant call them animal because animals never do sex forcefully. so its insult of animal by calling those motherfuck*r animal. For 10 -15 days we all talked about rape. We talked about women reight . we even sat on fast. we protested against government. but nothing outcome came out. we all forget everything. but its not fault of us. we are famil persona and we have jobs. and our government..our constitution provide lawer to every crimnal. rapist also got chance to defend them. I am not saying this is wrong. i humbly respect the constitution. But it was written those days when human were only human . but now they sometimes turn into monster. So  government should make change in law and give some strong decisions against rape.

                                                         “Women are breaking through and advancing toward greater attainment — but in a society that continues to be patriarchal, that is increasing tensions,” said Dr. K. Srinath Reddy, president of the Public Health Foundation of India. “And one of the manifestations of that tension is increased violence against women.”


Apart from government normal people should change the view for women. If we talk in general we can say that many among us take part in sexual exault. we pass vulgar comment . This make u to take part in sexual exploitation against women. We should develop siprit to respect girl. It has been said that our country is land where girls were treated as goddess. But now i think they are not even treated as human being..Many teenage boys pass comment to girls to look cool. I am not saying that dont look at girls. Look but with a good spirit.

BEFORE PASSING COMMENT REMEMBER U TOO HAVE SISTER AND SHE MIGHT FACE THE SAME PROBLEM WHAT U ARE MAKING TO FEEL OTHER GIRL.
Apart from sexual exault girls also experience violence. their own husband beat them.. I do belive that alcohol is the basic root of all problem.. according to my experience after havin alcohol he can get as much guts as he never had. and  in that pshycology mind doesnt work and they do commit such crime. And 90% of women suffers violence if their husbands are alcohol addict
 i want to urge every one if u can control urself after drinking wait in home till u feel fresh. Dont insult whiskey and beer. Do remember if u r really men u will never insult women without any reason and u will never rape any girl under any circumstances....
RESPECT WOMEN...BE A GENTLE MEN

Dont hate any religion

More than a decade have passed after 9/11 but still wounds are alive in hearts of Americans .  The impact of 9/11 was not only on U.S.A but whole world world suffered. If we talk about specific religion Islam community suffered the most...Why they suffered??? why people started viewing islamic people with a askance view...still knowing they are not terrorist we started telling islamic people terrorist...If i will talk my story then few months back i had also hatred with muslim due to some childish personal reason..when i brought my feelings outside i found there are many people in line who hate islam..but i thought one day why i hate muslim and i had no specific reason for that..i found myself guilty...
                        Now i have no problem with any religion...But still i fell why people fight on the basis of religion. i browsed on net..read many articles. even read some parts of quran to know the reson why terrorist spread terrorism in name of islam or  jihad. I found no answer for that hatred..
I do belive that if someone is  spreading terrorism in name of religion then he is not religious..They are using religion as nuclear gas and world is getting infected..They are not just doing attacks in india ,pakistan or u.s.a. they are actually killing peace ..I personally dont belive that any religion can teach spreading terrorism...
We have heard thousand times that islam is religion of peace....but actually if you are in favour of islam then you are in favor of peace.. The word "Islam" comes from selm and salam the Arabic words for peace Muslims greet one another with the expression "As-Salamu-Alaykum" which means peace be with you..i am not saying this..this is definition of ISLAM...how can someone tell that to improve islam we have to spread terrorism. Prophet MOHAMMED have said that goal of islam is to spread islam....All talk about jihad...i dont know whole story of jihad but till i understood it means struggle..JIHAD says that do struggle for your wish..bt its says that voilent and forceful behavior is last option...

According to the Hadith, the daily prayer of the Prophet Muhammad was centered on peace "O Allah, you are the original source of peace; from you is all peace, and to you returns all peace, So, make us live with Peace; and let us enter paradise; The House of Peace.  Blessed be you, our Lord, to whom belongs all Majesty and Honor!"
 Recently i watched a movie based on attacks of 26/11 which happened in Mumbai..I was surprised to see the way terrorist were killing people...what kind of hatred is this..nothing can justify terrorism..one of the terorist was arrested..he said that he was doing holy work by killing non-muslim people..they were doing jihad..I wnna ask them do they only killed hindu or christan...in that attack muslims were killed..muslim officers were in charge in save people..
I can say that they are not following islam..they are using islam to spread terror....
I do believe that terrorism have no religion..
com on man...we are educated ..this is generation of iphone 5..we are intellegent enough to understand the situation..we should not loose our mind when other provokes ...
I URGE EVERY HUMAN BEING THAT PLEASE DON'T HATE ANY RELIGION...WE ALL ARE SAME..HINDU, JEWS, MUSLIM OR ANY OTHER RELIGION, WE ALL HAVE BLOOD RED...so please don't let HATRED to rule your mind...have patience, think about matter then bring outcome...
HATRED is very small thing... u will die within it..peace, humanity is till infinity..we can walk through it through out the life and also after life...one of the finest poem JIM MORRISON has sid   ,"hatred is very underestimating emotion".

thanku...plzz give comment abt my thought:)